My Healing Journey……Author MaLady Mersadedeez

29 Sept 2024 11:38

My healing journey was not easy. It was the most painful,heartbreaking,back-stabbing, experience I ever went through in my life. I healed myself through prayer, tears & crying. I bounced back quicker,than I thought I would.I had more karmic experience with the men who taught me life lessons but weren’t my blessings. The last man I was with before he died in May of 2024,was my Virgo “Twin Flame”. He took really good care of me. He was the only real man I ever had in my life. He was my protector and he was built and sexy. He looked like he was in his 40’s but was way older.

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Let's Talk About the Protector

What is my personal opinion concerning a man?

Some men are seen as protectors. They tear down strong towers. These are the honest men that keep you safe as women. Their duty is to solely protect you and keep you out of harms way. The protectors as men who are honest,also protect women who have children. Protectors pray daily. Honest men trust that whatever plan they are given in life will carry him straight to his destiny. Honest men as Protectors are strong willed,Gifted,Talented and Hard Workers. Protectors have a lot of respect for women and women with children.

A man in general who is not honest with himself,can have too many things going on in his life. This complicates his life that makes it hard to distinguish what he really wants from you as a woman. A man's mood changes daily. He gets frustrated easily, that alone can sometimes throw everyone else off of balance in their daily life. It takes a lot of strength to love a man. You have to be ready for what a man is getting ready to bring your way. When a man gets hurt he becomes emotionally off balance. When a man is hurt he can become isolated from others and the world. His thoughts alone puts him in a different heartspace. Sometimes for women that require a peaceful relationship,dealing with an emotional off balance man can be overwhelming and a bit too much for her. For some women a man being emotionally unstable will be her reason to walk away from a man and choose a same sex relationship.

 

 

A Country Man's Love

 

 

What's the definition of a Country Boy?

A country boy is not quite ready for life's responsibilities. He's the youngin' that is not ready to pay bills yet or live in his own place of residence. He enjoys the southern country lifestyle. He still has a lot of growing up to do. The country boy is taking baby steps into adulthood.

The countryboy enjoys:

•trailriding

•riding horses

•wearing cowboy hats

•line dancing 

•fishing 

•can cook

•lives with someone or lives with a relative 

•Maybe single or Dating someone if 16 years of age or older

•May have a job or putting in applications for a job

 

What's the definition of a Country Boy Man?

A country boy man has learned the necessary lessons in life. He has mastered the arts,trades and skills needed to take care of his home. A Country Boy Man is ready for a family,if he doesn't already have one. He is a country man who has his own place of residence, his own vehicle and pays his own bills. A Country Boy Man loves the southern way of living. He loves being independent and responsible. Prayer is the head of his life. If he is a country boy man with a wife and a child or children,then praying is a must in their home.

A Country Boy Man:

•Works Hard

•Is Independent 

•Lives in his own place of residence 

•Drives his own vehicle 

•Pays his own bills and takes care of himself 

•Takes care of his family,if he has one

•Farms

•Trailrides

•Rides Horses or Owns a Horse 

•Owns and Runs a Farm

•Belives in Prayer and Praying

•Lives to Love Line Dancing 

•Wears Cowboy Hats

•Wears Cowboy Boots

•Enjoys Family Outings

•Enjoys Traveling Solo or With His Family 

•If he is a Single Man,He's Dating to Marry

•Attends Church on Sunday Morning 

•Goes to 2 Steppin Sunday on Sunday Night,if he's being real with himself about who he truly is 

•He's a great Father if he has a child or children 

• A Country Boy Man Loves Good Southern Country Cooking

• A Country Man Who Loves A Great Dish when going out to a restaurant to dine solo or with his family 

•A Trailriding Stomper for sure who loves line dancing music and the jukejoint blues.

A Country Boy Man's loving in my opinion is the best kind of love a woman can ever get from a man. If you are a woman who has been hurt in the area of love. After you heal, try giving a Country Boy Man a chance if you are blessed to have him come your way. Use discernment and wisdom,which guides you to understanding. This will help you to accept the right Country Boy Man and not the wrong one.

Life has a way of changing us that is out of our hands as individuals.Totally beyond our control.You just have to decide that you are going to let Fate and GOD lead you to the right Country Boy Man.This man will be in love with you. He will love you wholeheartedly and treat you as the special,sweet,kind,caring,loving woman you are.

Don't Give Up,Just Yet Country Ladies!

Just Wait on your Country Boy Man to arrive to give you his Country Boy Man Loving!

Maybe he is in a healing season. Maybe he is in a time period of his life where GOD has to operate on his heart ,to open his heart chakra up to you.

Maybe you are in a season of where you need to heal from some things that have hurt you in life. It could have been some people who wronged you and you need to heal. Some of you even have childhood wounds,trauma,brokenness and heartache you still need to heal from,as an adult.

Don't let any of this stop you from getting your Country Boy Man Loving. The right Country Boy Man knows exactly what you need,how you need it and when it is time to give you all of his loving.

I shocked you all on this topic huh!

See don't underestimate the Country Sweet Lady in me!

 

-MaLady Mersadedeez-